Sorry ladies but you’re not always right in the relationship. I know mind-blowing isn’t it? As we all know, women enjoy being the right one in the relationship and love getting their point across about why they’re right about that certain situation.
Obviously this is a big red flag in relationships. When your partner is too flirty and that’s their personality, it might become a problem in the long-run. However, it seems like it’s easier for the girl to get away with flirting than a guy because she’s seen as more “innocent” as opposed to him, considering the whole male reputation of being cheaters. If you’re being really friendly with other guys and think you’re just doing that-being really friendly-then you need to start thinking about your boyfriend and not just yourself. He’s probably too shy to confront you that it bothers him when you’re being too friendly or flirty and doesn’t want to upset you so he rather keep it to himself. But if you know your personality (and you should) and you know you’re known as being really outgoing and flirty with everyone, then perhaps try to tone it down if you care about your relationship.
It’s not really healthy spending all of your time in the relationship because you’re an individual and need to be content with being by yourself most of the time. So when you notice you always want to spend time with your boyfriend, be aware that you might be hurting your relationship and not doing him a favor. Sometimes he might get free time and decide to spend that time with his friends or do one of his favorite hobbies. But you start getting all upset because you feel like he rejected you by “preferring” to do something else with that time other than spend it with you. That’s not a good thing because he’s allowed to utilize his time however he wishes as an individual and so are you. Just because he finally gets free time, doesn’t mean he has to spend it with you. You’re not the only option he has in his life as harsh as that sounds. Understand that there are other things he has going on besides his job and you and he’ll love you for that. He doesn’t mean to reject you so don’t take it personally.